I have a spot in my heart for people who are mistreated by their parents but as I
have reached maturity I had to face a lot of truth too. How did I treat my
parents because it is a two way street. Harry can whine all he wants but
no one deserted him on a street corner, abuse him(??), he was always
well taken care of while he was growing up and now as he enterest his
middle age he has been given a lot of support. Much more than probably over half of the world. So as he is reaching middle age he has
decided to thumb his nose at his family at a very difficult time in the
family and country. Your Grandmother has just had a rash of losses in
her life and then you drop a big bomb on her. Why not reach out to your family and help them through some of these tragedies that happen in all families. What you have gone through in your life is not
usual, painful but this is life.If you are not going through some professional therapy, that might help a lot more than going on world
wide internet to help you through some of this because it doesn't look
like Oprah has helped much. Good Luck.
Lyla Wickstrum
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